It is possible that in the tumultuous lives that we all
live, so full of twist and turns and not so happy endings, we may lose sight of
who we are and what we are. These are the times that we truly question
ourselves aren’t they. I am not here to lecture on what we ought to do and or
suggest ways to cope with things that I have no idea of. But I can safely say
that in thee difficult times it is our friends and family that keeps us
together. That keeps us from falling into pieces. These are the people who have
feed you those memories whose hand we take when the going gets tough; they have
given us days by which we can swear that the times were better.
There are many bonds in life that are far too valuable to be
neglected. The bonds those are inexpensive yet invaluable. The bonds that make
you want to strive to be a better person every second of every hour of every
day. In life we seldom comes across people that stick for the long, some become
your wife, others become your best buddies and sometimes we are blessed with
blood relations that are the best in the world. Sometimes we get brothers who
would die by you and parents who would swear by you, not always but yet
sometimes they do happen. Even for the less fortunate ones among us we get to
be with friends who are just as intimate as a relation, if not more.
I myself has been lucky, for I have not found just one, but
a bunch of them. In fact I have found half a dozen of them in my college life.
I consider myself far too lucky in this regard. One among them became the
person with whom I have decided to share the rest of my farting and the not so
better part of myself with. The others would hitherto be my best men and women
for the rest of life, godfathers and god mothers for the my, sorry, our
children. Uncles and aunts who they will adore , the kind I will have a hard
time preventing from spoiling my children.
When I walked up the stairs of this building with hardly a
small back pack and an half-filled pen, with dreams that were taller that the
tallest skyscrapers. I for one did not see this coming. I did not believe that
I would be making buddies that will last a life time. But I made a bunch. I did
not believe in love, yet I found the perfect girl. I had reservations for my
future, yet it has never ever looked so promising. For what it’s been worth ,
The time I spend with my friends , squalling and trashing, fighting and
abusing, loving and caring, looking out for one another and not. Those endless
hours I have spent in there company gossiping. The insidious love and the
improper infidelity. These were the best days of my life.
I remember this quote today, because four years back I was
presented with a great opportunity , an opportunity to make friends with best
and most amazing individuals in the world, and thank god you made me grab it
and make great memories of them.
