To the eyes of a two year me, life was rater different from
what it is now. It was full of magic and everything was a kaleidoscopic in its
own nature. I have no real memory but rather flashes of it, vestiges of a memorable
time popping up like bubbles in a champagne glass. These are not memories that
I can make any sense of but are rather distinctive and certainly not very
descriptive in nature. I don’t remember all of them ( I was just a couple of
years old, my brain was still finding places to keep stuff and had other
serious problems like food and potty to bother about) but I do remember a few
of them and of course one of them has a lot to do with braids.
When I started thinking about braids and what the to write
about them, frankly I was turning blank, with the very little hair that I
myself has that was no surprise. That’s when I realized that I should stop
being a stupid narcissist and concentrate along another lines. I donned my
thinking hat on and started thinking what thoughts braids inspire in me. One thought,
rather one memory stood out of all. It was that of a two year old me, the hazy vision
of the dangling braids all in sepia like in any good flashback from a beloved
part of my life. I could see through the baby eyes of mine the life that was in
and around me.
Every one of my memories of my grandmother has something to
do with braids. I have seen beautiful pictures of my ravishingly beautiful grandmother
at my home. She had a very long braid, so beautiful were they, But that not the
one that I remember. By the time I was born she had lost the blackness of her
hair and her braids were no longer that strong but I can say that they would
put most girls to shame. I remember I her braids, much before she lost it to
old age and its ailments. It was like a silver thread, so beautiful; I can even
remember seeing them shine brightly in the sunlight. The little me was so fascinated
by the games her braids would play with the light, I would try chasing it, jumping
on it and everything else I was capable of them.
I don’t know whether I could go on and say that braids has
done a lot to my childhood, or that it played an important part in my younger
years. But I can say this that though I have no braids, braids have featured in
some the most cherished of my childhood memories. My memory of my mother when I
was little was one the most beautiful memories that I have of my mother, a
personal favorite, one among the very few where I remember her as carefree and
elated. Huh! Memories sometimes that is all that we may have for ourselves. My only wish is that these memories be real and not just a product of my runaway imagination.
Story written for : Beautiful Ends to your Beautiful Braids!
It's always amazing how we remember certain things as children and others are stored away in some secret place in our brain. It's good to know that the braids were full of such beautiful memories for you (some children are full of only bad memories). It's also very nice that when you have your own grandchildren that your memories become their bedtime stories ie: how grandma's braids were beautiful and silver etc......
ReplyDeleteIndeed its amazing... Something that we can always look forward to in our lives
DeleteIt strikes an immediate chord. Grandma's shining silver and mom's deep black braids. Those were the times when hair were not relegated to off-the-shelf recipes.
ReplyDeleteYes, their hair hand a particularly natural aroma to it, something that would come from grandma's secret magic recipes and that none has ever been so far able to mimic.
DeleteYour post brought back some forgotten memories in me. Though very rarely now, i go back into flashback to remember what life was then, what i use to do as a kid , what my thoughts were. Years after years, layers after layers the mind registers what is new, what is only fresh. I wish i had an elephant's memory and relish more of my childhood days. That vacuum of the mind , the innocence of the soul ,the curiosity about life. I am blessed to see that life again from the eyes of my 1 year old son now.
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Indeed you are blessed to see your son, It often happens that we relive our own childhood at the vicinity of a child and when it is your own, we enjoy it with a vengeance. :)
DeleteOh! Silver threads! I never thought white hair like that! Beautiful :)
ReplyDeleteGreat that you still remember those sweet childhood moments :)
Thanks for sharing those memories Rupertt! :)
Its my pleasure, Sri
ReplyDeleteYes, they where not white nor were they grey, But they were silver, so silvery. Light would bounce off them and they would glitter like diamond stands.
WOnderful post Rupert! It shows how close you are with them. Fond memories :)
ReplyDeleteIndeed, these are some of the fondest memories that I have and forever will remain so.
DeleteThanks Deepa. :)
This makes me smile as my 1 year old daughter does the same to me. She holds my back and she is so fascinated by my ponytail (I don't have long enough hair to tie into a braid). She has great fun by pulling my hair and I love to hear her giggles :)
ReplyDeleteAt times I wonder how such trivial things bring such immense joys to them, and then I wonder why not us? what are we missing?
Deletea fresh perspective
ReplyDeleteThank you noopuram
DeleteThis is a wonderful and a different take on the topic. Good luck mate!
ReplyDeleteThanks the solitary writer :)
DeleteThe realistic post. Good work Rupertt.
ReplyDeletekeep it up.
Have a nice day.
Thanks Pravin
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